Category Archives: Sexual Stereoytping

United by The Sameness of Difference

United by The Sameness of Difference

Our difference attracted us. Not the difference between ourselves, but the way we are both different from persistent, flourishing stereotypes.

gender stereotypes will forever cage the emotional joy of the sexual stage

The notion that the female is emotionally weaker than the male is perhaps the most ridiculous and the most relationship-destructive of all modern attitudes. The inherent strength of motherhood makes masculine bravado seem like a pompous courtship ritual. Puffed up chests full of hot air are fine for male turkeys not humans. Such gender silliness serves no one in the mating game that can, potentially, produce an enduring love that will expand sexuality far beyond all masturbatory fantasies of youth.

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I Dream of Venus

I Dream of Venus

I am not a tame chaste tool, a masked distorted fool of men who speak of a virgin birth and an idol Son as if only men are fit for gods and female spirits are lost inside a male shroud where women are forever veiled by that gender-tainted loss.Read More

The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction

The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction

The brain that works the penis has a double. It is the brain that works the vagina. The minor differences of each are driven by social demands. Thinking otherwise is the emotional force behind sexual dysfunction. Separating these incredibly complex brains into distinctive male and female minds in an effort to help them communicate is the greatest paradox of modern society. Conquering by dividing has no place in the remarkably rewarding world of heterosexual communication.

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A Tale of Two Sisters – Destroying the Myth of Gender Stereotyping

A Tale of Two Sisters – Destroying the Myth of Gender Stereotyping

Enduring love has no formula. I wonder? Of course it does. But there is no man or woman who knows what it is. Read More

SEPTEMBER: Falling leaves and dried out thoughts

SEPTEMBER: Falling leaves and dried out thoughts

Gender differences UNITE us; if they SEPARATE us we are meant to be APART. It is far easier to take any two clients of same or different sex and detail their differences than it is to group according to gender.Read More

VENUS: The Phoenix is Rising

VENUS: The Phoenix is Rising

VENUS: The Phoenix is a mythological bird representing death and resurrection. Originating from ancient Egypt and Greece, it was adopted by early Christians. Obviously, the ability of a creature that can live for 500 years then burn and be reborn from its own ashes faded from Christianity as the symbolism of a man nailed to a cross became the order. But, the concept of a being, with the wings, head and body of a bird, rising from scarlet embers in the face of the life-giving sun is an image artists for many generations could not abandon. To this day, the Phoenix continues as a symbol of a supremely beautiful, rare and unique person or thing. The Phoenix’s symbolic ability to rise from death has no reflection on gender. And, beautiful, rare or unique persons exist as women and men. The majestic, enduring quality of humanity is not male or female; it is a blend of both.Read More

There are no men from Mars. No women came from Venus.

There are no men from Mars. No women came from Venus.

MARS: Ancient Roman symbolism was depicted by Venus as the expression of beauty and love. Mars was the warrior face of man. The worship of each was equal: A completion of the human spirit. The splendor of Egyptian, Greek and Roman mythology shone in this equal worship of Male and Female Gods: Pray to Venus for procreation; pray to Mars for protection. Ever-evolving these Gods of the societies that formed the basis of modern civilization changed leadership roles according to the needs of humans.Read More

Lost and Counting in the Wastelands of Conformity

Lost and Counting in the Wastelands of Conformity

A Wonderland glows inside us all. Protected by a translucent, impenetrable shell are those desires we crave in silence. Visible, only, by our private imaginations, fiery emotions cling like crystalline-sheathed dreams to the ceiling of our deepest passions. Conditioned from infancy to find safety in harmony we deny all but the most synchronized expressions ofRead More

A Pledge of Spring: May we Escape the Prison of Sexual Stereotyping

A Pledge of Spring: May we Escape the Prison of Sexual Stereotyping

We are truly alive when we are searching for ourselves. Life is a constant reach to grasp beyond the stereotype for a fleeting glimpse of the person we are. It is a formidable task. But in our hearts we understand that anything less is the death of our individual character. This INDIVIDUAL begs to beRead More

Attracted by Difference. United by Sameness.

Attracted by Difference. United by Sameness.

“Attracted by our sexual difference we are forever united by our ever-evolving sameness.” As heterosexual beings we are by the essence of our hormones attracted to difference.  The desire to immerse our senses in the thrilling aura of what seems so opposite to our personal sexuality is intoxicating. Controlling these desires demands authoritative conditioning. HumanRead MoreRead More