Category Archives: Sex After 50

Striving for Personal Splendor in a World Saturated by Salt and Sugar

Striving for Personal Splendor in a World Saturated by Salt and Sugar

Striving for personal splendor is the essence of humanity: a reach that should forever hover just beyond our grasp. To advance as a species we must constantly want more, but in this inherent struggle to be at the top far too many individuals flounder in obscurity. Our hunger remains but our desires gradually become less refined, more and more impure until our minds, spirits and bodies are satisfied by junk. We allow our physical beings to be handfed by profit mongers eager to exploit our loss of self. Our souls wander aimlessly in a desperate search to see beyond the confines of archaic creeds designed to pacify insignificance.Read More

Restaging The Never Aging: The Lifelong Sexual Game

Restaging The Never Aging: The Lifelong Sexual Game

Shadows of Shame
Orgasm was there: Everywhere. As burgeoning adults, whenever we had a relatively private corner, it was waiting. Coming took less time than going back to the reality of Read More

The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction – Part Five: Dysfunctional Departure

The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction – Part Five: Dysfunctional Departure

These five articles have been shaped around Erectile Dysfunction. Not because we believe the major source of sexual dysfunction is related to the males’ lack of ability to achieve and maintain an erection. But, because E.D. has become a household word: A modern, comfortable topic for all couples except the most conservative. Pharmaceutical companies are in competition for a huge market and in their efforts to sell their products they have implied that they can restore the bond of orgasmic joy to lagging relationships.

They cannot.Read More

The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction  Part Four: Erectile Dysfunction Finds Compassion in Menopause

The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction Part Four: Erectile Dysfunction Finds Compassion in Menopause

As with art, so with sex. We can read and listen, learn techniques of lovemaking, we can define our own morality but only when we discover the personal lover inside our being can we become sexual artisans. You will never become the lover you were meant to be by copying the expressions of others.Read More

The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction  Part Three: Self Communication or Self Deception

The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction Part Three: Self Communication or Self Deception

Healthy Sex: here lies the key. Sadly, the key will not open a door that has been closed by lack of vitality. Sex can be part of the plan for combating physical lethargy, only, if the man is not sexually-lethargic. He must desire sex, and some men, youthful or well-aged, do not have a strong sex drive. Many men will welcome Erectile Dysfunction as a self deceptive excuse for their low sex drive.

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The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction  Part two: Communication vs Erectile Dysfunction

The Hard and Soft of Sexual Dysfunction Part two: Communication vs Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile Dysfunction: There are many reasons why a penis is not constantly erect. It takes up far too much space when there is no space in waiting. Erections make it very hard to pee; impossible at their most statuesque. Most importantly, if a man has an erection when stress demands he run or hide or fight for his life, he is not a lover he is a sociopath. For the functioning male there are many reasons why he is not erect and only one reason why he is.Read More

Sexual Maturity is a Lifetime Reach Beyond Grasp

Sexual Maturity is a Lifetime Reach Beyond Grasp

This blog is dedicated to our mature readers: those women and men who understand maturity is a lifetime reach beyond grasp. Consider: 1.Success is not achievement reached; success is the desire to keep reaching. 2. Experience the eternalRead More

Wife’s High Sex Drive Leaves Husband Feeling Inadequate

Our only child attends college and lives away from home. For over twenty-five years we saved and planned for this time of ‘freedom’. Susan is a fitness fanatic. I am lean, in decent condition, but cannot match her endurance. I was always the one who Read More

Blossoming Boomers: A Sexual Rebirthing

Blossoming Boomers: A Sexual Rebirthing

Rod’s Breath: Breathing in the blossoms, I walked through sixty acres of massive Macintosh apple trees in full bloom. My home was to the north. Way down south, buried in blossoms so ethereal white they made mockery of fresh fallen snow, was Grandma’s House. Every day, after school, I carved a fresh path through ever-fallingRead MoreRead More

Sexual Truth Is Far More Stimulating Than Fiction

Sexual truth is far more stimulating than fiction. Our autobiography is black and white. It has no need for fictionalized ‘Grey’. The young and the cute make pretty pictures that dance for our eyes in high definition surreal-sexual images as if to imply there is no room for sexual sophistication in fiction. Thankfully, the beautyRead MoreRead More